However, even if you’re a master at flirting, spotting those surefire signs a guy is flirting with you isn’t always easy. After all, it’s difficult to be fully aware of another person’s intentions. When it comes to dating, this often makes it tough to figure out if a man is being nice to you, or letting you know they’re interested.

To help you on your way to answering the age-old question, “Is he flirting with me?”, we’ve put together an extensive guide to spotting those definite signs he’s flirting. Discover all you need to know below!  

What is Flirting?

Before trying to answer the question, “Is he flirting with me?” it’s worthwhile taking a step back a recapping what flirting actually is. As Merriam-Webster’s definition of flirting states, to flirt is “to behave amorously without serious intent.”

Commonly, this behavior involves something spoken or written — or the use of body language — that suggests interest in a person beyond friendship. This can often be subtle and indirect, making it tricky to spot whether someone is showing interest.

How to Tell if a Guy Is Flirting With You: 15 Surefire Signs 

The best way to answer the question, “Is he flirting with me?” is to look out for the most common signs of flirting. These will give you an idea of what his thoughts and intentions are, helping you to figure out what steps to take next.

Below, we’ve put together a list of 15 of the most definite signs a guy is flirting with you, so you’ll have the best chance of knowing how he’s feeling!

Sign #1: A telling touch

One of the most obvious signs a man is flirting is if they’re physically reaching out. The initial touch will probably be subtle and playful. When you’re walking next to each other, pay attention to how close he gets to you. Does he reach out and help guide you as you cross the street? Does his hand linger on your back for just a millisecond longer than a friend would keep it there?

If it seems he’s consistently making physical contact in this way, it’s a good sign he’s flirting and that this is more than a nicety!

Sign #2: Lots and lots of text messages

A good way to tell if it’s flirtatious or friendly is by checking your messages. Does he text you throughout the day, either reaching out to you directly or speaking to you in a group thread? If so, you’re likely on his mind. 

Flirting over text can be a fun and relaxed way to connect. Just make sure you’re confident he’s on the same page before you start crafting those spicy flirty texts.

Sign #3: He follows you on social media

Similarly, following and interacting with you on social media is another indication of flirtatious behavior. Is he sending you hilarious Instagram reels all the time? Does he like all your tweets and Facebook posts?

Any kind of extra attention when it comes to smartphone use is usually a pretty good sign a guy is flirting with you. If you want to flirt back in the same way, send him in some of Zoosk’s TikTok videos so you can both laugh and share stories about your dating experiences!

Sign #4: Teasing

Just as it was in our high school days, one of the most common flirting techniques is the gentle tease. We’re not talking about him pulling your pigtails — we hope that was left behind in the schoolyard – rather, subtle teasing at your expense.

Of course, this needs to be gentle and good-natured. Often, it involves inside jokes or gently poking fun at you for something. So, whether he’s given you a funny nickname, made jokes about your guilty pleasure music choices, or poked fun at you for your undevoted love of romance novels, gentle teasing is one of the easiest ways to tell if a guy is being flirtatious.

Sign #5: Eye contact

This is one of the surest signs he’s flirting. Do you notice him catching your eye a lot, whether he’s talking to you or not? We look at people we’re attracted to, we can’t really help it. So, if you’re asking yourself, “Is he being friendly or flirty?”, pay attention to whether your eyes lock every time you both laugh. It’s a strong sign he’s into you.

Sign #6: He isn’t checking his phone

If he’s into you, you’ll have his full attention. Whenever you’re together, if you notice that his phone stays in his pocket, it shows you’re holding his interest. If a guy likes you and is flirting, you’ll be the pinnacle of his focus and everything else will be background noise, including his phone.

Conversely, if he’s taking it out every minute or two to read messages, he might not be as into you as you’re hoping and probably isn’t likely to be flirting.

Sign #7: Body language

You’ve probably heard it a thousand times, but it remains true. Body language is one of the best signs a guy is flirting with you. Is his body turned toward you when you sit next to one another? Are his feet pointed at you? Does he find a lot of excuses to be near you, physically touching you or just standing as close as possible?

Flirting isn’t just about the thing he says. If he’s sending you visual hints through his body language, he’s probably interested. Body language cues are one of our best tools for flirting, so look out for them!

Sign #8: He tries to impress you

One of the signs that a man is flirting is when he goes out of his way to impress you. Do you find that he’s often telling you about himself and his achievements? This could be a sign that he’s hoping to capture your attention and win your affection.

This might not be straight-out bragging though. Flirting in this way is often done by guys who’re genuinely interested and are doing their best to impress you. After all, it’s only natural that we want to present our best selves to someone we’re attracted to.

Sign #9: He gives you a lot of compliments

Compliments are a classic sign of flirtatious behavior. Whether it’s appreciating your cooking or commenting on your outfit, a guy who showers you with praise is a good sign he’s flirting. Just make sure that the compliments feel real. If they come across as over-the-top, it can be an indication that he’s not being genuine.

Sign #10: He’s always trying to make you laugh             

Have a sense of humor is one of the most important things to look for in a guy. And, knowing how to tell if he’s flirting often comes down to how the conversation between you plays out. If the guy is making a lot of effort to crack some jokes and make you laugh, it’s a good indication that he’s flirting.,

Sign #11: He wants to spend one-on-one time together

When it comes to signs he’s flirting, making excuses to spend one-on-one time with you is one of the most obvious picks. Does he invite you for a coffee date with friends but then pretends that the others canceled at the last minute so now it’s just you and him? Does he offer to stay late at work and help you out with a group project?

Whatever form it takes, showing a desire to spend one-on-one time with you is one of the clearest signs a man is flirting and that he’s into you.

Sign #12: He gets nervous around you

When it comes to dating, we all get nervous. But did you know that nervousness is a potential indication of flirtatious behavior and a sign that he might like you?

This can show in different ways, whether he stutters a bit when talking to you, fidgets a lot, or turns a bit red and sweaty. And, if he’s normally a confident guy, spotting this nervousness can be a surefire sign he’s trying to flirt with you.

Sign #13: He’s always finding ways to start a conversation (and keep it going)

When asking yourself the question, “Is he flirting with me?” think about how your conversations are. Does he make the effort to come up with new things to talk about or take the time to go deeper into topics and have meaningful discussions? Does he demonstrate that he’s listening intently to what you’re saying and is totally focused while you’re talking?

If so, it shows he genuinely enjoys talking to you and that he’s interested in what you’re saying. These are strong signs he’s flirting and a good indication that he’s into you!

Sign #14: He always seems happy when you’re around

What’s his demeanor like when he’s around you? An easy way to tell if he’s flirting is by seeing how is when you’re with him. If his face lights up when you walk in the room and his mood heightens, there’s a good chance he’s into you and he’ll start flirting.

Sign #15: He tells you directly!

Finally, and this one might sound obvious, when a guy straight up says he’s into you, you can be sure he’s flirting. Being explicit and direct leaves no doubt in the mind. This is the best scenario from which to kickstart a new meaningful relationship!

Is He Flirting With Me? Yes! Now It’s Time to Respond!

So, is he flirting with me or just being nice? If you’ve recently spent time with a guy and spotted some of those surefire signs he’s flirting, it’s time to figure out your next move!

Flirting can be a great way to build up a genuine connection with someone new. So, once you’re confident you’ve spotted his flirtatious behavior — and you feel physically and emotionally attracted to him too — join in the fun and get flirty yourself! Ask him some flirty questions, see where things go, and you’ll be on the path toward a meaningful, lasting relationship in no time!

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If you’re single and wondering what to do on Valentine’s Day 2023, I’m here to offer my two cents on what to do to still have a loved-up kinda day. I want to help get you in the right mindset and arm yourself with a few action steps not only to make February 14 a happy one but also a day that’ll launch you into 2023 with an open and positive outlook!

Valentine’s Day 2023: A Guide to Making it Goodie

Avoid social media 

Ok, before you call me a crazy person, hear me out. One of the biggest problems with social media as a society is that it can increase FOMO and feelings of loneliness, disappointment, and inadequacy. You may think you’re just checking in on family and friends, but when you see others experiencing Valentine’s Day in a way that makes you wish you had, the truth of the matter is that it can negatively impact your mood. 

Your goal this year is to find a way to maximize happiness and minimize any chance of feeling the blues. Making a plan to avoid going on social media for at least 24 hours on or around February 14 can help do just that.

Write yourself a card 

I know that giving yourself a card for Valentine’s Day may seem uninspiring. But, I’m not talking about forcing yourself to go out and buy a card at the grocery store and giving it to yourself (although if that makes you happy please do). What I suggest is getting some beautiful stationery and writing down all the good things you have done in the past year, the things you like most about yourself, and what brings you joy. 

Maybe you’ve overcome some incredible personal obstacles in the past year that you’re proud of? Or maybe you’ve tried some new activities and made some unexpected friends that excite you? Whatever it is, focus on the positives and the things that make you smile and enjoy recognizing the accomplishment in that.

Dedicate the whole day to yourself 

Valentine’s Day 2023 is on Tuesday this year but that doesn’t mean it’s a day for getting caught up in work and not focusing on yourself. Your goal starting now is to sit down and start planning what your perfect day might look like. 

Begin by making a list of your favorite activities or guilty pleasures. Then pick one or two things from that list and make them happen. It could be ordering in your favorite take-out or candlelit yoga, taking a doubly-long bubble bath with a book, or watching a Romantic Comedies marathon. 

Think about what will feel good for you. Do you want to dress up and put on some red lipstick for a Zoom catch-up with friends? Or is it a day of solitude in your PJs? Whatever you choose, remember it is YOUR day and you can be as selfish as you want to be, just make sure to make an actual plan for yourself for the day! 

Do something nice for someone 

As much as this is a perfect ‘me day’, make sure to take a moment to connect with the other important people in your life too. It’s true, you may not be in that forever relationship yet, but that doesn’t mean you can’t tap into that special sharing and giving part of you. 

This can be as simple as sending someone a simple handmade card or flowers or even just a nice text wishing them the very best Valentine’s Day possible and thanking them for being in your life.

Buy yourself a nice gift 

Like many around the world, you have had a very trying couple of years and this little gift is a way to thank yourself for being you and continuing to push forward in challenging times.

The gift can be practical or a splurge, but the intent is to make the purchase a conscious effort to give something to you, from you… no strings attached. Buy yourself 100 roses or an air fryer – truly whatever floats your boat and will make your heart smile! 

Plan Your Valentine’s Day 2024 

New Year’s is usually the time for resolutions, but if you want the next Valentine’s Day to be the one you share with that special someone you have to start working towards making it happen. And when I say work, I do mean work. 

When I was a struggling single in my early 30s I knew I had to change things up. I flipped the switch and made it a goal to find the man of my dreams. I truly treated this goal as a job, not as some idyllic dream. My action steps included reading self-improvement and relationship-building books, as well as putting myself out there on dating sites and single’s events.

Within one year of that choice and by sticking to my plan, I met the man of my dreams. We have been married for almost a decade now. This can be you too if you want to make it happen enough to take steps in that direction. 

Dating, especially on Valentine’s Day 2023, may look a bit different to years past, but if you plan for what would make you feel good you can enjoy celebrating YOU and the special people in your life on the day! Remember that there’re many different kinds of love and many different kinds of ways to celebrate that! This year, be your great love and plan your perfect kinda day! You deserve it!

If you feel like you could benefit from some more support reach out to Amie here. Amie Leadingham is a Master Certified Relationship Coach. Her greatest accomplishments come from seeing her clients find lasting love, and she offers a 30 minute Free Relationship Readiness Review here.  Amie has been named one of LA’s “Best Dating Coaches” by DatingAdvice and featured in a variety of media outlets including the CBS Network, Fox 5 News, People Entertainment Weekly Channel, HelloGiggles and Martha Stewart Weddings. Grab her free eBook, 5 Dating Traps Keeping You Single here.

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To help get you started, we’ve put together an extensive list with some of the best questions to ask your crush. We’ve divided these into several categories, so you can choose the right tone for the moment.

51 of the Best Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl

The best flirty questions to ask a girl are all about keeping things interesting. From the funny to the flirty, the romantic to the deep and meaningful, this list of 51 questions to ask a girl you like is sure to help foster a genuine connection between you and your date.

Go-to icebreakers: 20 fun questions to kick things off

You can often measure how well a date went by how many laughs you shared. These questions are a great way to break the ice with a girl you like while giving your date a chance to tell a few funny stories about their life. Make sure you have a few stories of your own to follow up!

1. What’s your funniest dating story?

This is a go-to icebreaker and always brings the laughs.

2. What’s your opinion on public displays of affection?

Here’s hoping they feel the same way about PDAs as you do!

3. If you won the lottery, what would you do within the first 24 hours?

You can learn a lot about a person from how they’d celebrate winning a million dollars…

4. What would you do after the first 24 hours?

…And you can learn even more about someone from how they’d spend it throughout their first year.

5. What’s your go-to karaoke song?

If it’s a duet, even better.

6. What’s your best dance move?

If they answer ‘the worm’ you’ve found a keeper.

7. What were you like in school?

Were they nerdy? Sporty? Outgoing? Shy?

8. Have you binge-watched any TV shows recently? 

If they say a TV show you like, you’ve got a great future date idea.

9. Who’s your celebrity crush?

Just hope they say somebody who looks a little bit like you!

10. What are your red flags in a partner?

This is a great way to learn what they value in a partner – and what they don’t.

11. What film makes you cry every time?

If they don’t cry at the Lion King, they’re made of stone.

12. What food could you eat every day?

Hopefully, they say something you know how to cook. Then you can make it for them on a future date.

13. Have you ever taken a road trip?

Road trip stories always bring laughs.

14. Which is your favorite country you’ve visited?

You can learn a lot about somebody by how they describe their favorite country.

15. What’s your dream job?

This a great way to find out if you share similar ambitions.

16. If you were a guy for a day, what would you do?

No great personality insights from this question – it’s just often hilarious.

17. What gives you the ick?

Best to know in advance, so you never give them the ick.

18. Do you have any hidden talents?

This could be a very insightful question, or a very flirty one, depending on their answer…

19. Do you believe aliens exist?

*Puts on tin foil hat*

20. What’s your dream holiday?

Some people prefer the beach, some prefer a dancefloor and others like architecture and hiking. And some people want everything at once!

11 romantic and flirty first date questions to ask your crush

Love is in the air with this next batch of flirty questions to ask a girl. Asking a few romantic questions can help to ease any first date nerves and introduce a more intimate element to the date. Check out 11 of our top picks below!

21. Do you believe in love at first sight?

Discover whether they have an inner romantic.

22. What’s your perfect day?

If things go well, you can always create this ‘perfect day’ for them on a subsequent date.

23. What’s your favorite romantic movie?

Everybody loves a good romantic flick.

24. What’s the quickest way to your heart?

Be sure to take notes!

25. Do you get butterflies when you fall in love?

This a good question to get thoughts of love and romance flowing.

26. What’s your favorite romantic story?

Maybe it’s a renowned romance novel, maybe it’s the story of how their grandparents met.

27. Who do you think is the perfect couple?

Just hope they don’t say, Romeo and Juliet.

28. What would your ideal relationship look like?

This lets you know if your desires are aligned early on.

29. Do you believe in fate?

Another romantic question that gives you an insight into how they see the world.

30. What’s your love language?

If you don’t know yours, you can read about them here.

31. What are your passions?

There’s nothing like seeing somebody’s eyes light up when they talk about their passions.

Flirty questions to ask a girl over text: 9 examples to try

You don’t have to be face-to-face when it comes to flirty questions for her. In modern dating, you can flirt just as well over text. Here’s how to have a little fun with it!

32. What are you doing right now?

A classic flirty response to their answer is usually “I’d love to be there with you”.

33. Should we send voice messages instead?

Voice messages convey personality, and you can have some real fun with them.

34. Which emojis do you use most often?

They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. Well, we say a person’s emoji favorites page is a window into their soul.

35. What are your biggest turn-ons?

Get ready for a fun conversation.

36. What are your turn-offs?

And then an even more fun conversation

37. Who was your first crush?

People’s first crush is usually pretty embarrassing, so this question should bring the laughs.

38. What’s your favorite way to relax?

Maybe one day you could relax together.

39. Have you ever been naked in public?

Because everybody should have at least one “naked in public” story.

40. What did you think when you first saw me?

A risky one, but worth it if their answer is just what you want to hear.

Alternative option: 11 deep questions to ask a girl you’re into

Trying out some flirty questions for her is great. But, if you want to see a person’s values and learn more about their background, deep questions are usually the way to go. Just don’t dive in with these right at the beginning of the date – it’s best to get a little warmed up first.

41. Are you an extrovert or an introvert?

Don’t worry if you’re opposites – they can often pair up very well together.

42. Are there any quotes that mean a lot to you?

Some quotes can change people’s whole lives.

43. What are your thoughts on marriage?

It’s best to learn this early on, so you know you’re on the same page.

44. Do you want children?

… And this even more so! (But don’t pressure them to answer)

45. Where do you want to be in 10 years?

If your answers align, it’s a good sign.

46. Do you believe there’s one perfect person for everybody?

If they do, you’d better hope that you’re it!

47. What’s your biggest fear?

This could be a funny answer, like ‘spiders’, or it could be something more existential.

48. How do you picture your life when you’re old?

Maybe they see themselves as the head of a large family, or maybe a large corporation instead. It’s good to know early on.

49. Are you close to your family?

This might be a heavy question for some people, while an easy one for others. Be prepared to change the subject if they prefer not to discuss it.

50. What do you value most in life?

This is a pretty important thing to know about a person, honestly.

51. What gives you a feeling of purpose in life?

Knowing what drives a person can help you see their personality in a new light.

Practice Makes Perfect!

When it comes to flirty questions for her, practice really does make perfect. So, if you’re dating a woman you think might be the one, we hope that, with this extensive list of flirty questions to ask a girl, you’ll have found something that works for you. Remember to relax, look out for those surefire signs of attraction, and keep things feeling natural. Good luck!

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Knowing how to flirt over text can be great for letting someone know that they’re on your mind. When you’re connecting with someone new it sparks conversation and, ideally, sets you on the path towards an easy first date. And, for those already in an established relationship, flirty texts can spice things up and recapture the romance!

But, where do you start when it comes to working out how to be flirty over text? Below, we’ve tackled this topic and outlined some examples of flirty texts for him and her that you can try!

How to Be Flirty Over Text: 6 Things to Bear in Mind

Knowing what to say in a flirty text is one thing. But, how exactly do you go about it? Creating a subtle flirty text is an art. It requires the sender to show confidence and intrigue while avoiding the pitfall of coming across too strongly. 

This might sound a bit daunting, but knowing how to subtly flirt over text is easier than you might think. Below, we’ve put together a few key points to bear in mind before you start crafting your flirty texts.

1. Keep it concise

When it comes to knowing how to flirt over text, there’s one tip that we can’t emphasize enough: Keep it short and sweet. Think of it this way, if someone came up to you in a bar and talked continuously for 10 minutes straight as a way of trying to chat you up, would you be interested? Probably not. 

The same goes for a flirty text. It should be concise, engaging, and attention-grabbing. The recipient should be able to send a similarly short and sweet response back, kickstarting the back and forth flirtiness. 

2. Try to avoid coming on too strongly

Flirting over text always involves treading a fine line. Subtlety is key here so try not to get too carried away when crafting your message. That doesn’t mean you can’t be confident with what you say but try to avoid going overboard with it. The same goes for when you receive a flirty text. Looking out for those subtle signs of flirtation will help you to craft the perfect response.

3. Ask open, playful questions

When you’re working out how to be flirty over text, open, playful questions are a great place to start. Whether you’re coming up with some flirty questions to ask a girl or flirty questions to ask the guy you’re crushing on, they’ll help to engage the person you’re texting and show them that you have a genuine interest in them. Again, keep things simple here and make the question as engaging as possible to encourage a response.

4. Make it positive

Positive vibes are key when it comes to flirting over text. It should be upbeat, cheerful, and light-hearted. So, when creating your message, avoid talking about any heavy topics that might bring down the mood.

As well as positivity, compliments are the key component of a subtle, flirty text. Whether it’s compliments for a girlfriend or a boyfriend, think about the things that you most like about your partner. If you’re flirting with someone you’ve only just recently connected with, pick something that instantly attracted you to them and use this as the starting point for your message.

But, remember that compliments only work if they’re sincere. If you try to craft something that isn’t all that genuine, the person you’re texting will likely catch on pretty quick and the flirty mood will quickly disappear. 

5. Play it cool

This one relates to our previous point about not coming on too strongly. A key part of knowing how to flirt over text is avoiding the temptation of sending multiple messages. It’s understandable, especially if you’re genuinely excited about texting the person. But, nothing kills the mood more than sending multiple answered messages in a row.

Try to make sure that you’re, roughly, sending the same amount of texts as your partner. You probably don’t want to be sending five texts to every one of theirs, for example. Also, try to avoid texting back as soon as you get a response. Play it cool and take your time to craft the perfect flirty response. 

6. Consider their love language

This one might not be so relevant if you’re flirting with someone you’ve only recently connected with online. But, for those wondering how to flirt with a girlfriend over text, or a boyfriend, taking the different love languages into account can be a big help when trying to decide on the right approach.

If you haven’t already, figure out your partner’s love language before crafting your flirty text. If they resonate more with physical touch, for example, then a subtly seductive text might be the best way to go. 

Flirty Texts for Him and Her: 67 Flirty Text Examples to Try

Now that we have the basis of how to flirt over text, you might be wondering what this actually looks like. In short, there’s no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to flirty texts. What the message looks like will depend on your strategy and approach.

To help get you started, we’ve put together 67 flirty text examples below and categorized them into eight different strategies. So, whether you’re trying to come up with some flirty texts for him or craft the perfect flirty texts for her, we’ve got you covered! 

Flirty text strategy #1: Ask a cheeky question

Asking a cheeky question is a great way to kickstart any flirty text conversation. Below, we’ve picked out 11 of our favorite examples to get you started!

1. Want to hear a secret?

2. Why are you so cute?

3. Do you miss me? Type “Y” for yes.

4. In the mood to have some fun?

5. Do you like it when someone makes the first move?

6. Our first kiss is going to be epic, don’t you think?

7. What would you say if I asked you to come over?

8. Which emoji makes you think of me?

9. Have I told you that I want to kiss you today? Because I seriously want to kiss you.

10. I like you. What are you going to do about it?

11. Want to have this conversation in person?

Flirty text strategy #2: Be bold about how much you like them

When thinking about how to flirt with a guy over text, being bold about just how much you’re like them is often a great place to start. If the guy texts back in a similar manner, this can be one of the clearest signs that they’re into you. Below, we’ve put together some examples of how you can craft this approach into your flirty texts.

1. I’m not big on the whole “wait three days” thing, so I’m texting you now.

2. Seeing your name pop up on my phone screen makes me grin like an idiot.

3. I don’t have anything interesting to tell you, but I really wanted to talk to you.

4. You’re pretty freaking great!

5. Everything makes me think of you.

6. You’re pretty much my dream guy.

7. You never fail to give me butterflies.

8. The more time I spend with you, the more I want to KEEP spending time with you!

9. Even when I’m with you, I can’t seem to get close enough to you.

10. I’ve been dreaming of you even when I’m wide awake.

11. You’ve been on my mind a lot today. And it’s only 8:30 am.

12. I can’t sleep. I blame you.

13. You make my heart happy!

Flirty text strategy #3: Talk about the last time you were together

One of the best ways to invoke a flirty vibe over text is to talk about the time you’ve spent together. Remind them of how special the experience that you shared was and throw in some cheeky references to keep things fun and flirty!

1. Our last date was really fun. I can’t remember the last time I had that much fun.

2. It’s impossible to get any work done today because I can’t stop thinking about our night together.

3. You looked really cute last night.

4. I keep thinking about how good you looked the last time we were together. 

5. I hope my roommate’s out tonight so we can have a night just as good as last night.

6. I was dreaming about our day yesterday all day at work.

Flirty text strategy #4: Mention the next time you’ll be together

A big part of knowing how to flirt over text is building anticipation. Talking about the next time that you and your partner will be together is a great way to create an engaging and memorable flirty text. Check out some of our examples below!

1. I wish you were here next to me right now.

2. What does your week look like? Any room for me?

3. We should probably go on another date soon.

4. You’ll love the outfit I’m going to wear tonight.

5. If you want to make a move, today would be the perfect time to go for it.

Flirty text strategy #5: Make use of emojis 

When it comes to flirting over text, emojis can be a great way to make your intentions clear. And yes, there’s a lot more to it than just the eggplant and the peach! Check out our emoji-based flirty text examples below.

1. [burger emoji], [pizza emoji], or [taco emoji] tonight?

2. Surprise! I got you flowers: [bouquet emoji]

3. I’m getting off work early tonight…[eyeballs emoji]

4. [office building] arrow] [beers clinking]

5. I had a really great time last night. [see no evil monkey face emoji]

6. Me when I get a text from you: [heart eyes]

7. You’re [honey pot] with a side of [flame].

Flirty text strategy #6: Make plans

Oftentimes, the best flirty texts come from taking the lead. Making plans with your partner via a cheeky message is a great way to achieve this and build excitement between the two of you. Side note: This approach can work especially well if your partner’s love language is quality time!

1. Do you have any plans for this weekend? Because I don’t. Let’s make some.

2. This is me asking you out. Want to get coffee on Saturday?

3. Let’s have drinks after work tomorrow.

4. Any lunch plans today? Thought I could swing by and we could eat together!

5. I’m craving sushi. We should get some for dinner this week.

6. I’ve been wanting to see [insert movie name here]. Want to see it together?

7. Let’s go on an adventure together. Want to try a new hike this weekend?

Flirty text strategy #7: If you’re ready for it, get a little naughty

To really know how to be flirty over text, you’ll also need to consider getting a little bit PG-13. As long as you and your partner are on the same vibe, subtle and seductive messages for him or her are a great way to spice things up. Check out our list below to get inspired…

1. I’m not wearing any underwear right now. Just saying.

2. I can’t wait to be alone with you again.

3. If you send me a sexy selfie, I might send one back.

4. If you kiss my neck, I’ll do anything you say. Knowledge is power, so use it wisely.

5. Just wanted to let you know that I just got out of the shower.

6. I had a dream we were sexting. It was so good that I woke up and decided to turn it into a reality.

7. This text entitles you to one kiss on the body part of your choice. Choose wisely…

8. My thoughts of you are particularly R-rated today.

9. Just thinking about all the things we could do if we were back at my place right now.

10. I can’t wait to be by your side again. Or on top, if you prefer.

11. I am sooo hungry right now…thing is…I don’t want food.

Flirty text strategy #8: Speak your mind

If you’re struggling to figure out how to flirt over text, a great way to get started is to say what’s on your mind. Being honest and transparent can be romantic — and seriously sexy! So if you’re finding the idea of flirting over text a bit tricky, check out these seven examples below to help kick things off.

1. This song I was just listening to really reminds me of you.

2. I was talking about you the other day.

3. I’m using my last 2% of battery to text you that I’m thinking about you.

4. You look so good right now. I can’t actually see you, but I assume you look good because you always do.

5. Hey! Stop thinking about me so much!

6. I had a lovely dream about you last night.

7. Everything about you makes me smile.

Flirting Over Text: Practice Makes Perfect!

When it comes to knowing how to flirt over text, practice is everything. Use this guide as your starting point and try out our flirty text examples word for word or draw inspiration from them for your own saucy witticisms!     

Whether you’re in an exclusive relationship or you’ve only been chatting for a few weeks, experiment with a few different approaches to see which sparks the best vibe between the two of you. Relax, have fun with it, and get ready to take your flirty texting game to the next level! 

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Everybody texts differently. But, there are definitely some indicators that a guy likes you. We’ve asked a ton of different guys their thoughts on texting when they like someone, to settle this once and for all. Below, you’ll find a full crash course on how guys text their crush. 

How Guys Text When They Like You: Step by Step

They go heavy on the emojis

These days, there’s an emoji for almost everything. It’s almost like they were invented to clear up possibly misunderstood text situations. If this is a guy who’s aware that you don’t know his level of sarcasm or sense of humor yet, he’ll go out of his way to make sure that emojis will help show when he’s joking. 

He’ll also reveal his playful nature. If he’s not an emoji guy, adding “lol” to the end of sentences will let you know he’s being lighthearted. He’s almost certainly not actually laughing out loud. But, he very well may be smiling when he sent you that text – which, of course, is how a guy texts when he likes you.

They’ll find any excuse to start up a new conversation

If he’s bored, it suddenly seems like you’re his go-to person. You may get a few texts that just say “hey” or “what’s up?” If he wasn’t interested, he wouldn’t even bother. But you’re on his mind, and he just wants any sort of excuse to talk to you. 

Some of these early conversations might be your best because there’s still so much you’re learning about each other. Every text can be something new.

He’s not afraid to double text

It may seem like there are a lot of etiquette rules out there, but double texting is fairly new. As the name implies, it’s when a guy texts you after you haven’t texted back. When a guy double texts you, it’s a pretty clear sign he’s interested. Sure, it might make him look a little needy, but he likes you to the point where he’d rather take the chance.

He’ll also be the one to text you first

How do guys text when they like you? Very frequently, for one thing. You don’t have to worry about being the person to start things up – he has no problem texting you first, regardless of what time it is. He’ll also send you a text at midnight if it’s something he might forget to tell you in the morning, or if he sees something that reminds him of you. 

This maneuver has two purposes. He’s striking up a conversation for you to reply to first thing in the morning and is also secretly hoping you’re awake for a spontaneous late-night chat.

He’s got a bunch of questions, and some of them are straight-up bizarre

Instead of just asking about your favorite movie or musical group, his “getting to know you” questions are a lot more creative. He wants to know what celebrity you’d bring with you on a desert island, and the one television show you’d wish out of existence if you had the power.

This is because he’s making sure he’s compatible with you, and having fun together is all part of it. He’ll ask you questions about your job, and your family, but potentially avoid questions about your past relationships. Aside from, “currently seeing anyone?”

He won’t be too crude unless you’re the one who sends the suggestive text first

An important part of learning how guys text when they like you is understanding that, despite the fact guys are often bold when it comes to texts and sex, if he’s really into you, he’ll be more conservative at first. 

That’s because, with you, he’s got so much more on his mind and doesn’t want to blow it by sounding perverted or making you uncomfortable. However, if you bring up the topic first, he’ll be down to chat about it (and probably intrigued that you made the first move.)

He hints at a hangout

Even though it’s perfectly fine to hang out with a guy as a friend, this guy seems really into the idea of making plans. If he’s brought it up many times, that’s him subtly asking you out on a date. Don’t be afraid to say yes if you think he’s got real potential.

If it seems like your phone is constantly blowing up, this guy is definitely crushing on you. Think about it — when was the last time you had a day-long text conversation with a guy who’s just a friend?

Look Out for the Details

As guys, we can be pretty mysterious when it comes to texting. It’s not always easy to judge emotions through a text message. That’s why, when figuring out how guys text when they like you, it’s important to look out for the details.

Pay attention to the flow of conversation, the language he uses, how often he texts, and whether he seems keen to meet up. And, when you do meet for a first date, look out for his body language too. These things will help you to determine his true feelings for you.

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A recent survey showed that 69% of dating app users in the US were open to using video chatting to get to know a potential partner better. Pre-pandemic, only 6% had tried it. So, if you’re one of the ones who’s giving this new way of dating a try, here are a few tips on how to FaceTime your crush so it’s not awkward.

How to FaceTime Your Crush: 6 Top Tips

1. Keep it light

Although you can get to know someone pretty well through video chatting, it usually takes meeting up in person to figure out just how deep the connection goes. You can’t know how their hands feel holding yours, or how they act on a date out when you’re not physically there with them. 

So try not to get too overly invested before planning to meet in real life. Keep the conversation light and relaxed when FaceTiming your crush. Try out questions along the lines of, “What’s been your most recent binge watch?” and avoid ones like, “So, how many kids do you want someday?”

2. Go on a virtual date

Virtual dates are all the craze right now. Not only are they fun but they’re also a great way to avoid the dreaded awkwardness. When thinking about how to FaceTime your crush, this is an option not to be missed.

Wherever you choose to go, traveling the world from your couch is a fun way to keep the conversation flowing.

3. Incorporate a movie into your chat

When considering how to FaceTime your crush, watching a movie together is a great option. Try out a platform like Teleparty, which lets you and your crush watch your favorite shows in real-time together. Pick something that you haven’t seen before but don’t mind chatting over (like a notoriously bad movie). Or, choose the latest blockbuster that you both really wanted to see. 

This way, there’s always something to talk about because there’s another form of entertainment to distract you from any potentially awkward moments. There’ll also be less pressure to keep the conversation going if you’re both relaxed watching a movie together.

4. Try out a game or quiz together

One way to keep things entertaining during a FaceTime call is to play something together. Taking part in a game can stimulate conversation and help you to get to know each other better. Just how competitive are you both? And what kinds of games do you love playing? Find a co-op video game or break out a two-player board game. 

If games aren’t your thing, try taking a quiz together and chat about your results. For pure fun and laughter, the weirder the quiz the better. Or, if you want to get to know each other better, try out quizzes like “Which Characters Are You?” to get an idea of your crush’s personality. Are you looking for someone who relates to Britta from Community? Or on the hunt for the Jon Snow of the dating world?

5. Join a social dating community 

Social dating communities are great places to make new connections online. If you’re looking for a casual, relaxed FaceTime idea, getting involved in one of these communities with your crush is a great option.

Try out Zoosk Live, for example, a live streaming platform where you and your crush can connect in real-time. Find something you’re both into and jump into the stream to join the conversation. It’s not only a fun way to connect with your crush but engaging with the stream and chatting to others will help to get rid of any potentially awkward moments of silence!

6. Do something independently

When trying to figure out how to FaceTime your crush it’s worth remembering that you don’t always have to be taking part in the same activity. While on the call, pull up a cake recipe that takes a bit of work and talk to each other while you’re focused on your pastries. A little distraction often makes the call feel less awkward and can help you to feel more comfortable opening up. 

By distracting your mind, you’re less likely to overthink things. For a bit of a competition, you can both try the recipe at the same time. Who can follow it best? Who’s the most experimental while still being able to create something edible? The choice of where to go with the challenge is up to you both, but it’s always a positive when you and your crush can be creative together.

Practice Makes Perfect

If you’re worried about how to FaceTime your crush so it’s not awkward, don’t worry! Getting used to the ongoing rise of video dating takes time and if you’re struggling to adjust to the new normal, you’re not alone! 

Practice makes perfect here and there’re plenty of ways to make FaceTiming your crush easier, fun, and less awkward than just staring at each other through a screen. Be confident, be yourself, and enjoy this new way of online dating!

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